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Originally Posted by GregoryV022
i mean, i was at rehearsal for Macbeth today from 10AM to 10PM. you would expect someone to strike up conversation right.
but no, no one did. not only did not one seem to want to talk to me. the people i actually did wan't to talk to, act like i don't exist.
this one girl got yelled at or messing up. nothing big or anything, but she was pretty broken up about it.
so i go over to comfort her, and you know give you a little hug or something. but she take two steps to her left and hugs this other guy who i know she hates.
oh ya, this girl happens to be the one that i have feelings for. and shes my dance partner for the dance show im in. now i feel really awkward.
maybe its just me reading to much into things, but it really seems that people just don't want to talk to me and i am tired of it and i really hate feeling left out.
would anyone like to enlighten me as to how to combat my apparent problem.
i just don't feel noticed. normally that fine. but it gets to a point of being upsetting.
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Ahhh man high school... It's brutal in those halls! Dude, don't even fret about it.. Just know you're a great person and who cares if these people don't "want to be around you".. Shrug it off and know you don't need them.. Act like they aren't even there and they're not important, don't give them the upper hand of them thinking you need them..
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the people i actually did wan't to talk to, act like i don't exist.
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Pshh then they are people you want to act like they don't exist... Just be your own person and if they don't like you well then that's their problem and their loss... That's how you need to think in these situations.. Plus I mean you won't even remember/care about these people when you graduate.. Believe me... lol
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so i go over to comfort her, and you know give you a little hug or something. but she take two steps to her left and hugs this other guy who i know she hates.
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Did she know you were coming over? If she did that was pretty messed up to leave you hanging like that.. Since she's your dance partner just treat her as your dance partner.. Be nice do your thang for the play and thats it, act like nothing ever happened. Make her see what she is missing out on.
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i really hate feeling left out.
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I know how it is, I went to a high school that I knew no one at and it was hard the first year... Is there any other extra curriculars that you can sign up for? I was in band and it was like my other family LOL Plus we got to travel abroad and it was pretty cool... High School is crazy but don't let it get you down, seriously... It sucks for almost everyone in their own way... No one has a "perfect 4 years in high school" there is always drama and blah blah blah... Like I said just shrug it off, stand tall and have the attitude that these people need you and you don't need them...