Aw, man, don't torment yourself, it isn't worth it. If this is just something happening at this one event, and not part of a lifelong pattern, it says everything about your fellow cast members, and nothing much about you. Stay focused on the performance requirements so that you don't end up unintentionally giving your dance partner a real reason to be upset at you. Then look for a relationship with someone who'll value your caring nature.

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1988 California version 260E (W124)
Anthracite Grey/Palomino
Owned since new and still going strong and smooth
MBCA member

Past Mercedes-Benz:
1986 190E Baby Benz
1967 230 Inherited from mom when she downsized
1959 220S Introduced me to the joys of keepin' 'em goin'

There are only 10 kinds of people in the world--those who understand binary and those who don't