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Originally Posted by GregoryV022
thanks for your support guys. ... but now ive heard a rumor that im called "The Creep" behind my back
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Dude: You're gonna' hear ALOT of stuff behind your back...and so will everyone else...it happens...listen to those who've posted already.
HS is all about drama...and you're in...theatre?
Where can you get more drama than there?
You're in a "developmental stage" right now...and so are the upteen thousand kids around you in that pit called HS...everyone of them wants (screams) to be noticed...just look at how many have tattoos, piercings, ear-plugs, tongue-studs, Kool-hair (Cherry or Grape-flavored coloring) and the like...
They all look the same 'cause they're trying to stand out and be "The One."
You just need to be yourself...and just because you tried to comfort some chick that got yelled at...that could be the reason someone else got bent out of shape and referred to you as a "creep" - they wanted/needed a hug more than they thought the other chick did, got jealous, then started calling names.
Get some thicker skin and realize that this type of behavior is normal FOR EVERYONE...
Think about it for a second...
You see the HS Jock pick on someone just a bit smaller...and you say to yourself "What a ......!" CREEP?
You're getting it! It happens to all because it's part of growing up and the testing of the waters around you.
Get into what you do the best and don't worry about everyone else...if you like theatre, go to some plays, get involved at the local university or community theatre and do some of the legwork "behind the scenes" - and quit worring about what others say...it's more important that they take notice of what you DO.
Standing around and worrying got no one anywhere.
Picking up the shovel and removing the 5hit may not have you "overflowing with chicks" but everyone will notice that when there's something that needs doing, you're the "go-to-guy" to have it completed.
Work on the real stuff and leave the fluff where it's at.
Remember this: Hardly anyone remembers who was responsible for lighting the lamps, but EVERYONE remembers what Paul Reverve did AFTER seeing those lamps.
Be your own Paul...
BTW...let others talk about you and say what they may...don't respond...your actions will speak for you.
"'Tis better to be open-minded than open-mouthed."