I had a similar problem with my 380SE, I replaced the check valve at the fuel pump, but it didn't make a difference. I finally replaced the fuel reservoir (accumulator) and this cured it. It began with hard hot starts, and eventually got to the point you're at. Do a search, there's a test to check it.
Hope this helps.

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