Originally Posted by Antony

That is my plan. I think that you hit the nail on the head with this not being a dress rehearsal. I hope to do some positive thinking, and become a better person for having lived through this. The catastrophe has already happened, with that behind me, I need to pick up what is left, repair that which can be repaired, and move on.
Thanks to all who have given this thread a look. Happy New-year!