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Originally Posted by Diesel4me
Once the US decides to wake up and give gay people equal access to marriage, i have no doubt that stories like this will be scarce after a couple of generations.
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I have my doubts. There will always be family pressure to get married with a person of the opposite sex, have kids, etc, etc. As far as I am concerned, this isn't about someone who decided her sexuality late in life. This is about someone who cheated on someone. That it happened to be with someone of the same sex is not going to be relevant.
When someone does something like that, be it with any sex, what they are doing is testing the waters without any commitment. IOW, if it works out, they ditch the spouse or SO. If it doesn't, they still have the spouse or SO to fall back on.
IMO, this isn't about somebody who found out that she was attracted to the same sex. It is about someone who wanted something different without risking much. Somehow, I think the OP is better off without her. I'd buy the ex's GF dinner for taking that problem off my hands and wish her my best since she will need it when dealing with that woman. After all, if she could cheat on him that way, what makes anyone believe she cannot do it again?