Sounds like you're in a tough place with your wife. Might be time for a talk to let her know your true aspirations, if she didn't already know them. Perhaps run it by her that she married you for what you were at the time. However you'll mull over any input/suggestions. It couldn't hurt. As far as money goes, I've never been married, so fortunately I don't have to meet anyone's financial expectations - just mine. Hope this helps.

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