Ohh, my back is killing me.

Just figured out that the circuit board is probably in the box with the female holes, not in the male plug with the pins, right? That solves the problem of not taking apart that bundle of wires.

1. The one I'm after is the squarish one above and to the right of the relay I circled, and NOT the rectangular one below and in line with the small one I circled?
2. I see a nut at the end of a bracket holding those three relays - that is the PITA that compu_85 was referring to and if I take that one nut off the whole bracket with all 3 relays will drop down loose?
3. If I take off that nut, will it go right back on when I'm done without crapping up the cruise control alignment?