No it is not your fault he was pretending to be a traditional Christian. I am a Christian myself so it is no flaw in that respect. He is a jerk. My daughter made a poor choice in marrying him.

I don't see how any of this fits into your viewpoint of people caught in unfortunate circumstances automatically are in that circmustance because they or their parents did not do a good enough job measuring up to your idealized mythical standard.

Christ said, "let he who is without sin cast the first stone".

Let that thought be my gift to you for the day.

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..I also have a 427 Cobra replica with an aluminum chassis.