I have replaced a couple shift knobs. On both, I had to pull the console panel up and out, and undo a lock bolt at the base of the shifter. Your year should be similar. If you open up your console, it should become apparent.

Good move not to force it!

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Peter
1985 300TD 4-speed 212K
1992 400E 343K
2001 E320 72K