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Originally Posted by LarryBible
One of the most absolutely accurate, non automotive posts ever written on this forum.
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Just something I have noticed. The more I blame others, the less reason for me to improve myself and the less self improvement, the more degeneration. Much like conspiracy theorists that blame a sinister cabal for their fate. Well, as long as the cabal is there, there is no reason to improve since they control your fate so you just made it easier to accept your fate via blaming someone else. You don't need effort or talent anymore since it doesn't matter. Much more palatable than having to blame oneself. Kinda like blaming ADD, ADHD and other crap for your kid's bad behavior instead of saying "I failed as a parent because I didn't discipline that kid enough and now he is what he is".