At the risk of starting a post war, let me make some suggestions to our younger members.

When you are out at a party or what ever, never go after the hot chick. Every guy with cards on himself is going to do that.
Its an ego thing.
They end up going home by them self.
Scan the room looking for a quiet potential.
Its ok if they smoke! I was once told if they are prepared to put poisons into their body they are less likely to be concerned with your intentions.
Believe it or not the average girl is actually hoping that an average guy will show interest in them.
Best just be yourself. It does work !!

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Grumpy Old Diesel Owners Club group

I no longer question authority, I annoy authority. More effect, less effort....

1967 230-6 auto parts car. rust bucket.
1980 300D now parts car 800k miles
1984 300D 500k miles
1987 250td 160k miles English import
2001 jeep turbo diesel 130k miles
1998 jeep tdi ~ followed me home. Needs a turbo.
1968 Ford F750 truck. 6-354 diesel conversion.
Other toys ~J.D.,Cat & GM ~ mainly earth moving