Everything people aspire to these days is so artificial. The institution of marriage is left over from when life was real. These days people are not equipped to deal with things when they get real.

A long hiking trip is a good acid test for a relationship. It also shows you personally what you have made of yourself. When you get deep enough into the wilderness to be several days away from a grocery store or a shower your priorities become more clear.

If she has not taken up any new hobbies like trying to drain every keg of beer in town or sleeping with the neighbors, she has my sympathies.