So, yesterday after thinking we had solved the problem I drove around a lot. I drove to pick up my daughter from school and everything is fine. When I get home I put the under dash back together, I put the trunk back together and I revel in the accomplishment! Few hours later I take the car out completely confident and within a few brakings the fuse blew! I felt like crying! What a surprise and I can't believe it! I put in another fuse and it continued to work just fine for probably 15 miles of stop and go.