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Originally Posted by spdrun
Find another job, part on good terms with her, and speak to her after you've left. Nothing wrong with 15 years older --
she's probably as nervous as you are.
Lastly, going out to lunch or for a drink with someone whom you're not expected to be interested in is pretty much perfect, since it can be passed off as a professional lunch without harm on either side in worst case.
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Just like that? Find another job? Leave a perfectly good one for a hope of a "maybe"? Sorry, I can find a lot of "maybe" situations outside of the workplace without doing something that dumb. It's stupidity to give up a job you are happy with for a shot at "maybe". Now, if I was really fed up with my job, why not find something better.
And dumb. No stupider than the SS man that stiffed the hooker though.
It will take more than a lunch every couple months to find out if this person is worth risking your job/career over. More than that and office gossip will be flying.