Yep, just like that. As long as the salary and benefits are similar, then who cares? I know I can:
(a) get another job
(b) sell my skills on the open market, freelance
(c) sit tight for 12+ months, comfortably, while waiting to do either (a) or (b)

BTW - it's NOT a "perfectly good" situation if you have to be around someone that you're extremely interested in, but can't act on it. I would find that completely intolerable, and would either want to act on it or take myself out of the situation. Bonus points since she's older -- I'm 32 and basically *only* interested in late 30s or 40-something women. Women my age or younger seldom hold any attraction to me.