Looking at the picture in my CD manual it looks like there are two relays under the black cover. The smaller one is for the solenoid valve and the larger one is for the return pump. Probably either one willl disable ABS. I just noticed you said to pull the connector from the control unit not the hydraulic unit. Is that accessible by removing the fuse box cover or is it more involved than that? I did not find the Ebay listing you mentioned. The only ones for 19.99 were for a different model car. Thanks for your input on this problem.