Not sex. Companionship. Finding sex with naive 20-something barflies is no trick, but isn't what I'm looking for. Finding someone in her late-30s to mid-40s who's interesting to be with in all respects is the goal. Guess I just need to get the word out there that I go for older women, and that it's my preference - I have plenty of friends that age who might know someone who's open-minded.

Maybe I'm more female than male in this respect (hence the preference for older partners, and my lack of understanding for the stereotypical guy who wants to f**k but not talk).