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Old 12-16-2012, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by elchivito View Post
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Thinking the Unthinkable

In the wake of another horrific national tragedy, it’s easy to talk about guns. But it’s time to talk about mental illness.

Three days before 20 year-old Adam Lanza killed his mother, then opened fire on a classroom full of Connecticut kindergartners, my 13-year old son Michael (name changed) missed his bus because he was wearing the wrong color pants.

“I can wear these pants,” he said, his tone increasingly belligerent, the black-hole pupils of his eyes swallowing the blue irises.

“They are navy blue,” I told him. “Your school’s dress code says black or khaki pants only.”

“They told me I could wear these,” he insisted. “You’re a stupid *****. I can wear whatever pants I want to. This is America. I have rights!”

“You can’t wear whatever pants you want to,” I said, my tone affable, reasonable. “And you definitely cannot call me a stupid *****. You’re grounded from electronics for the rest of the day. Now get in the car, and I will take you to school.”

I live with a son who is mentally ill. I love my son. But he terrifies me...


Full post here:
The Anarchist Soccer Mom: Thinking the Unthinkable
Interesting. Brat mouths off to parent and threatens siblings with knife and the parents response is not to discipline the kid but to "reason" with it. This is precisely the point I was getting at about societal breakdown in recent times. What would the reaction of parents in the 1940's have been to this kid?

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