Im pretty sure Frybrid is less than 12 years old :-)
I can help you out here. your setup is similar in plumbing to that of a Greasecar system - Return line is fed back into the feed line. The advantage is that this keeps the WVO hotter, the downside is that purge times are much longer (30-60 seconds instead of 7-14) and some WVO gets into your diesel tank.
At some point the Frybrid system included an option for a third valve (this is what I have). It gives you the best of both worlds.
Can you send a pic of the black box microcontroller that you have?
Also, the Frybrid manuals are here
Frybrid Vegetable Oil Fuel Systems -- Manuals
Hope this helps to start...
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