Here's some advice from an old bar hound. "Don't **** where you eat".

If you enjoy the bar, avoid any personal entanglements. It NEVER turns out well. If you and the lady hit it off then that bar is no longer a refuge 'cause now it's "OUR" place, and not "your" place. If you don't hit it off then the bar becomes a divided camp.

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“Whatever story you're telling, it will be more interesting if, at the end you add, "and then everything burst into flames.”
― Brian P. Cleary, You Oughta Know By Now