Speaking of instincts....sounds like you have a great indie. My gut says let them source the tranny and do it for you. I'm sure you'd pay a bit more, but I bet you'd have a lot of peace of mind.

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06 E320 CDI "Rutherford", Black on Tan, 180k mi, Stage 1 tune, tuned TCU
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