Originally Posted by martureo

I don't think you quite understand what responsibility is. It is owning up to the results of your actions/words.

Sure, I'd adopt the kid if I could, but my willingness to do that has nothing to do with the responsibility (or lack thereof) of this woman.

She acted, as did the man. They are now pregnant. "Killing" (to make someone else happy ) the fetus is only as responsible as killing someone who you've made dependent on you by your actions.