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Jim B. · #59 02-11-2014, 06:10 PM

One thing not mentioned here so far is the simple mathematics here.

Possibly this woman - and many if not most - what ALL unattached women over 50 y.o. must surely understand is that mathematically under typical circumstances most American females long outlive their male mates, who often as not take less care of themselves, viz, diet, nutrition, exercise, alcohol consumption and so on. Not to mention (in many cases, the stress induced problems caused by the demands and exertion of their jobs. - Though this last factor is catching up a little bit now because most WOMEN too have the chance to get and succeed at jobs like that too, and the health problems that can come with it.

If this works, (in the instant case) the woman who is NOW 55, hooks up with a guy about 39, statistically she WILL likely have a mate for 30 years.

But if she went for a guy her own age, or older (if she can find one unattached and available!), she is only likely to have a companion for 10-20 more years at best .

Look at the denizens of ANY "over 55" type of retirement community, and you would understand that INSTANTLY.

I am certain this woman knows that, as she is an intelligent, successful professional that worked hard and surely has given it a passing thought at the very least.

Obviously this is practical and a bit cold blooded but bottom what woman wants to become an early widow, or lose her love early on when she'd prefer to have him with her and healthy for as many years as she can?

And also, knowing that men place HIGH value on the visual, ALL older women are acutely aware that their "value" decreases yearly as they get older and their looks fade and gravity hits their bodies harder. The beauty and cosmetics industries rake in billions of dollars, every year, because of that, if any proof is sought in support of this position.