Gasket is toast. Time to plan replacement. Buy Genuine MB head gasket, not victor-reinz.
Its typical for oil in coolant only, not usually vice versa.

Don't let it continue for too long or you will wear out your water pump.

As for the other, sounds separate issue.

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