Dude, A couple of points.

Bill and I came to the same conclusions without talking to each other. When two ( or more ) people come to the same conclusion perhaps what they are saying is true.

We were not battling fine points on when the use " a " or " an " , your post is borderline illegible. The buyer apparently was illegible in communication as well. Non specific goals, communicated in a non specific manner, will yield non specific results.

I'm guessing you run your life like this as well and blame others for your misfortunes. At this point you have a choice, get your house in order or be doomed to struggle for the rest of your life.