My son dated a seemingly nice girl all through high school, her dad was apparently a jerk, he said she couldn't to to their prom because "girls only go to the prom to have sex" (!) .

I raised my boy to have eyes wide open and some time after that he came home with tears in his eyes on a Friday night ~ it seems he'd tried to make a really nice romantic event for their first time to gether, renting a nice hotel room, spreading rose petals , lighting candles and more, when he came to her bed with a condom she said "if you love me you don't need that" and he said he instantly flashed back to me telling him I wasn't going to raise up and bastards, grabbed his clothes and walked out never to go back / call her .

She was married a month later, I'm glad and proud he was able to doge that bullet .

Not all Women are like this but enough to ruin many lives, not just their own .

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-Nate
1982 240D 408,XXX miles
Ignorance is the mother of suspicion and fear is the father

I did then what I knew how to do ~ now that I know better I do better