Actually the woman I married has enough spirit. If I ever really seriously got her upset with me. A frying pan on my head when I was asleep is not unthinkable.

I know under her nice social veneer there is a potential animal Lurking. She is not violent by nature normally.

I would not like to live with a woman without spirit. She is also smart enough she misses nothing.

Her sister warned me when we got married never to cross her. You break her heart and she will rip yours out. Metaphorically speaking I hope she meant. Plus an assortment of other things. Primarily some insight into her unusual abilities. Of which she really has a few.