Well Tom there is no assurance they will heed any warnings anyways. His grandfather raised him and did a number on him as well. Constantly fed him money. Daughter did mention he gets depressed if he does not have money to spend all the time as well.

I did tell her when starting out it is often the case you just do not have money all the time. It got to the point the wife was always quietly giving the daugher money. I knew it and she knew I did. I said nothing.

I did realise the best course to stop it was to talk him into the refrigeration trade. Well that did stop the daughter getting money from the wife.