Sorry for the double post, I know it confuses things. I will try to delete it.

I checked the fuse and it is good. All plugs are getting 12V.
The relay is acting up, if I bang on it with a screwdriver it will work, sometimes.
I took it apart and cleaned the contacts and checked for bad connections, but I didn't see anything. It is probably the capacitor(s). I decided to go with a relay bypass kit.