Start the car cold and see which line gets warm first, that should be the inbound line to the cooler from the transmission. On a warm engine the cooler line would be the return to the transmission. I've seen the flow both ways on various cars so I'm not comfortable in saying which is which (upper vs. lower) on that car. I'd rely on temperature.

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