Darrell,

I’d like to have a MLC, but I’m too busy pedaling. My oldest daughter starts Harvard in September. That’s 45 big ones each year for the next 4 years. If my other two kids follow suit, I’ll be in real trouble! If you have time to entertain a mid-life crisis, that must mean you’ve already mastered the first two life priorities, namely, “Have I been the best husband I could possibly be to my wife?” and “Have I been the best dad I could possibly be to my kid?”. And now you have time to address the third one, “What about me?”. Placing your desires ahead of your family will not do you proud. Honoring your commitments to your family will do you proud. The obvious answer is “Why not do it all?”