Stefano

This, my friend, is a good thing!

You are now both on parity. No more outting her on a pedestal.

Don't take this as a loss or a setback. You are very lucky to be where you are now.

You are seeing that doubting only provided uncertainty. Now relax. Be who you really are. Did I say relax? Let it flow.

Call her up, ask her out. Just be who you are. Act like you are going out with your sister. Tell her everything. Talk with her AND include that you were nervous to kiss her. If she is as you have described her, she will respect and possibly adore you for YOU being who you are.

Have a great time. Have a wonderful evening. At the end, reach over and kiss her, a good one!

Go home and smile!

You deserve at least this.

Haasman

PS: NO GIVING UP! She means much too much to you. Go man go!

PSS: On another personal note, years ago, before I met my wife, I met a woman that absolutely totalled me. She was just an incredible person. Beyond what I had ever imagined.

I was jelly, worthless, incapable of even speaking correctly infront of her. This was my "be who you are" lesson. I whimpered away knowing that I would never be "enough" .... so I thought .....

Years and years later, I ran into a friend who said "she always thought you would have been great for her, she asks about you frequently .... but thought you didn't like her or something. Something was getting in the way ........"

Yeah, it was me, I was in the way of getting want I wanted. I recommend being who you are at all costs. If it doesn't work, it simply won't. But don't ever start being something you are not. Sooner or later it will fail.

The best you is the genuine 100% you.

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