after some more testing I made sure the idle air control valve was getting 12 volts and it was. I then unplugged the connecter and it didn't do anything, no change in idle. Weird thing is it seems to not surge in idle anymore. It stays around 600-700 no more 500-1500 crap. It does run rough though when it's cold, soon as it warms up it seems to idle pretty good. I am finally making some progress and soon enough hopefully I will have a smooth idle!!!!!

Thanks guys