Thanks again for all the support and excellent advice, I really mean it. I would have never thought so many people would say so much. I'm not sure if she has somebody else, it certainly is possible -- I'm smart enought to know that anything is posible.

For now I guess the only thing I can hope is that she is happy and safe. There is really nothing else I can do.

Have to keep going on with life. I know they say that time heals all wounds I'm definity going to be the one that tests that theory.

The only thing I can't stress enough. If you have a person that you love, and I mean really love (think about them more than yourself, etc.), give them an extra hug and kiss, and let them know how much they really mean, not just with words, but show them. If one less person in the world has to have this happen to them, it is worth it. When you see those flowers in the supermarket for $1.99 and you think about it. -- Don't just think about it, grab them -- heck, grab two! walk in the door with them behind your back, tell her (or him!) you love him and give them to her. Or if you're in a dollar store, and you see a little card (usually 2 for a $1) -- 50 pennies, isn't going to break anyone. Grab it, throw a stamp on it, and mail it to her. Trust me, the little things really do matter.

Funny, I hear people joking about how if they knew then what they know now (about girls, and youth, etc.)... how life would have been different. Well, I can say the same exact thing only about married life. A simple card, and some flowers, I can remember how her face would light up when I gave her a simple bunch of flowers, she would grab up a vase as quick as she could, and start sniping away to make it just right for the vase, she'd clear off the whole dining room table, and put them smack dab in the middle.

I don't know really what else to say, except, thanks again.