oh, and just to throw in my $0.02, I can't totally agree with the pedofilia argument, 'cause I'm 19 and I'm thinking of dating this girl I knew in high school, but she's 17 (turns 18 in april) so even though we're 2 years apart, she's considered a minor and I'm an adult (and her parents are crazy enough to try to get me in trouble). Would I be considered a pedofile because she's not quite 18? Can she not make wise, informed decisions untill april? Am I just as bad as some guy from N.A.M.B.L.A. or Michael Jackson?