thanks , my friend works for the dealer , so he does have a used ECU ready for me if I needed it ($200.00) I'm heading over there saturday, this is when he can do side jobs at the dealer's, gonna try one more time to run diagnose and clear errors, if that doesn't work , I'm just gonna have'm install the ECU, hopefullyy that will clear the problem.I'll let you guys know how it goes and thank you for your replies.
Can someone Explain the proper procedure to change a battery without damaging the ECU , so we don't risk $1600.00 in the futur everytime we need to change the battery? , that's rediculos.

BTW you can forget about that fatboy in my sig , it was stolen out of my garage last thursday (the 14th)