Having some problems and would like to know what you older generations think i should do. assuming most of you are over 21 here.

My ex, who left me (for another guy) about 8 month ago is actually a very nice person. a bad GF (she is flaky) but she has a lot in common with me and she really wants to be friends.

so i didn't talk to her for 8 month but i sometimes visit her online journals and she seems to be very protective of me and wanted to talk to me. i read her journal this sunday and she did mention my BDay (today) and how she really wanted to talk to me.

So i gave her and E-mail. saying i forgave her for all the stuff she did to me and caught up on some things.

Now here is where it gets complicated. she has a BF, and i have a GF. i don't like her BF (obviously), and she and my current don't like each other. i can see a lot of drama about to go down here but i made a policy of doing what i want and suffer later so its too late to turn back now.

should I?
1. tell the current GF?
2. Keep it a Secret?

If i do no.1 she might leave me, and that sucks. but if i do no.2 it would seem wrong. and a relationship doesn't go anywhere if u can't trust each other.

I have seem to dug myself a very deep grave here. but the hole has been dugged. any of the wise mechanics in here can give me a opinion?

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