Sorry to hear about your misfortune. The good news is that you or no one else was injured. That damage looks pretty bad. I have seen them total some out with that much damage, but some of them can suprise you. My uncle had a crash in his 2003 Nissan Frontier 4dr 4WD crewcab Supercharged truck a couple of months ago. He lost control due to a suspension problem around a curve and sharply side-swiped a tree. It was damaged from front to back. The passenger side "A" pillar took a very hard hit- so much so that it smashed the front windshield and buckled the roof, shattered the rr door window as well as the rear window. It also broke the lights- from front to back.
Luckily, neither of them were hurt, but his daughter was covered with glass and he could not get a signal on his phone, so he drove home, then called the police. His truck has set at his house for a while- battling the insurance company, because they want to "fix" it. He still has the unresolved problem with Nissan Motors, because of the "Vibration/suspension" problem it had since day #1. I think they finally took the truck and is repairing it, but I am sure he will sell/trade it in. I was amazed that they did not total it, due to the extensive damage- not to mention it set there for weeks, with crashed windows, with rain entering the cabin.
, because he did not cover it up.
As mentioned, your car really done its job though- the crumple zones really absorbed the energy and the passenger cell held up 100%. I am wondering though- what was the girl driving and how badly was her automobile damaged?
Good luck. Hopefully you will be able to repair this one, or get another one in perfect order.