Thanks guys, i wired it in Tuesday night, right when that storm coming in, bout 2am. THe way i found the power was by unpluging the black connector on the 4 pin connector. When i unpluged that the radio wouldnt turn on, SO i knew that had to be the power.
I snip and wired the red wire the the Remote (also red) and the other i left untouched. And the only ground left i attached it to the black ground.

The Antenna wire (blue) I attached it to the Accesory (blue)

Someone should make a Cd Installation thread and have it stickyied