Not sure about the relay, but the fuel pumps (there are two) are under the rear seat, outside the car, under a plastic cover.

Should run when cranking, don't know if they do the 1 sec buzz at at start or not.

Peter

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1972 220D ?? miles
1988 300E 200,012
1987 300D Turbo killed 9/25/07, 275,000 miles
1985 Volvo 740 GLE Turobodiesel 218,000
1972 280 SE 4.5 165, 000 - It runs!