Would you want someone to come and bring flowers over your eternal resting place or at the scene of the accident?

What makes more sense?

I go to my granfathers burial site, bring flowers and clean up. If I were have that same attention at a crash site, I'd have to bring a street sweeper.

I saw one recently where a guy was killed on a motorcycle and the next day, there were dozens of people bring flowers, laying wreaths at the damn crash site, making trafic worse than at the time of the accident.

What do you tell your boss, "Uh, I need a couple of hours off, a friend passed away"

Ok so you're going to the funeral?

"No, I'm gonna bring some flowers and dropped them off on the side of the Turnpike where he died"

Bring the flowers to the grave site........besides, lots of people could have died at that same site, there's only one person buried in the grave. At least you get the right one.

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