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Originally Posted by GermanStar
In the long run, you may wind up not being friends with either. I've always noticed that married and single people seem to live in different worlds. Once your divorced friends become accustomed to their new single status, they may develop new circles of friends to the point of excluding their old ones. Hopefully not, but it certainly wouldn't be unusual.
Ron
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This is a pretty accurate assessment of what will transpire...as is JenTay's "two fighting dogs" analogy.
So stay away and become a neutral party. Allow either to come see you if they desire, and lend a compassionate ear.
We have many in our circle who are divorced (but not recently). But no matter how amicable the break-up, one party cannot resist tossing a few well-placed "jabs" about the other in a conversation...
