Well it happens more under load, when climbing hills and such. I am going to change the trans mount first as I can tell it's FUBAR buy visual exam. Once that's done, I'll get it on a lift and go from there.
I'll ask around and see if someone will let me bum their lift for a few hours. I can't fathom spending $300 in labor to fix something I can do myself. But I may have to if I can't get a lift.