It sounds like an intermittent problem. The combination of lack of idle speed control, hard cold starting, and ABS light point to the OVP relay, which powers the ABS system, KE ECU (which includes all the cold start enhancements), and the idle speed control valve, TVS, and microswitch.
I believe previous posts have discussed how to check out the OVP, so you should search on the subject.
Also download all the shop manual data from
www.mb.braingears.com
Check out and download the additional KE and electrical job numbers in the 124 and 126 CD from this site, too, as they have additional diagnostic and trouble shooting info.
Duke