keep trying, they will come off. The first time I changed plugs on my E420 it was tough getting the wires off. I too, used the tool you have( bought it at Pep boys) and first I just kept twisting the boot back and forth. Finally it cam off with a little tug. I wish I could tell you the "secret" but it just takes patience and keep twisting .

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