You can rent (or buy) fold-up engine hoists. As to what to use to hold it still, try a big tire! Like from a big jacked up pickup. Just lower the oil pan into the center. Tie the engine off to the side rails so it can't move around. We brought home an engine for my son's Eclipse (yuck!) that way in the back of my Suburban. Of course that little motor did not need as big of a tire! You just put the deep part of the pan in the center of the tire. Don't try to find a tire big enough for the whole pan. You want the tire to be the main support for the engine.