Cannot give you details of pins, but there must be at least one with 12 volts.

** I will test switch to find if 12 volts.

The auxillary relay/fuse box is back of the box under the windshield, lid has 4 screws.
There are two fuses in there at the back. These are for the anti theft warning system....ck them anyway. Some of them interact with the door switches.
**I have replaced these fuses also.

does the steering colomn adjustment work ?
Yes
Same power source.....Ck fuses 2 and 9.
**both of these were replaced but I will check again!

If this does not work the seat memory control may be bad. This is under the seat. I have changed two of these over the last few years.
**What is cost of the memory unit?

I will get back to you after I perform the above.
Thank You for your help!!
Bob