Met my current wife on a blind date,have been married 15 years.

My high school friend Sue,who had a very active "social life" and was well known in local bars told me about a co-worker of hers in the local hospital who was single,very smart and was my feminine beau ideal,flaming red hair and a very voluptuous and feminine figure.

I initially dismissed this with the usual reservations,great,I said, another lowlife bedwarmer,couple of drinks and slam,figures with the tarts she hangs out with.

I could not have been more mistaken.

Called and left a message on her machine,she called me 2 days later and the rest is history.

She did share her initial anxiety with me 1 week later after awakening from a post-coital nap.

She was very worried that since I was a friend of Sue's I would turn out to be another crack headed slacker and thus she fell victim to the same fearful reservations I had in regards to her,after that fate intervened,fostered by honesty and respect.

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