You normally would not use 3 phase with any household appliances. It's typically used in heavy duty motors that can take advantage of the 3 phase. Instead of a single AC waveform, there are three AC waveforms, spaced 120 degrees out of phase from each other. The device (typically a motor) needs to be wired to accept three phase current.

As best as I can determine from your description of what you wish to do, you will be dealing with single phase for all of the devices that you mentioned.